Human timeline

We become more invisible as we age. We sometimes become less relevant as we age, and we even become frowned upon for not being completely up to date with all of the trends.

Aging has become unpopular, but still, I would say way less than it used to be. We are finally understanding the beauty and value in wisdom that becomes real only with experience.

Nothing in life creates wisdom, the queen of all virtues, except the time spent learning from tribulations that life puts us through. If we are lucky and smart, we learn and grow. Privileged are those who know how to put into practice what they have learned.

Living in this manner makes us better individuals, as it encourages personal growth and fosters a deeper understanding of ourselves and those around us. When we adopt a lifestyle characterized by mindfulness and empathy, we begin to cultivate qualities that enhance our interactions and relationships. Embracing such a way of living inspires us to pursue our passions and interests with vigor, which not only enriches our own lives but also positively impacts those we engage with.

As we strive to improve ourselves, we inevitably contribute to the betterment of our society, creating a ripple effect that encourages others to reflect on their own lives and make meaningful changes.

Younger generations contribute significant knowledge, remarkable intelligence, and open-mindedness, which thankfully enhance everyone's lives in today's society. However, there is truly no substitute for the knowledge gained over the years, which we later refer to as wisdom. Additionally, nothing can accelerate the process of gathering the experiences, introspection, and perspectives that ultimately shape our identity, which we develop only over time.

I have never seen a shortcut to wisdom. Throughout my life, I have encountered situations that have challenged my understanding and perception of the world around me. Each experience, whether positive or negative, has contributed to my growth and development as an individual.

Wisdom is not something that can be acquired overnight or through a quick fix.

It is a gradual process that requires lots of reflection and a willingness to learn from successes and failures.

Wisdom is born from the accumulation of knowledge, the ability to discern right from wrong, and the understanding of the nuances of human experiences. It is born out of empathy for all beings on the planet.

It is forged through the trials, the relationships we build and destroy, and the lessons we hopefully learn along the way. Each moment of reflection, every conversation that challenges our beliefs, and every setback that tests our resolve adds layers to our understanding of ourselves, ultimately shaping our lives, hopefully for the better, but only if we allow ourselves to learn on the journey.

The journey to wisdom is filled with uncertainty and hardship, yet it is precisely these challenges that enrich our understanding of ourselves and others.

Is it possible to acquire true wisdom without enduring numerous challenges and difficult years, only to finally achieve it in our 40s and later?

Is there a way to learn early on and avoid countless mistakes?

Is there really value in avoiding mistakes and sailing through life harmoniously?

Is there such a thing as true harmony when we, as species are so complex?

Ultimately, how much of what we've learned do we actually apply for our own benefit and for others?

Our relationships constitute the largest and most significant part of our lives, shaping our experiences, emotions, and even our identities. Yet, despite their indescribably profound impact, deep down, we know that we cannot genuinely change or affect others in any very significant way.

Despite our best efforts, we cannot alter another person's thoughts, emotions, or actions. This limitation maybe explains why we struggle to progress more harmoniously as a species. If we could listen and comprehend others better, we would gain a deeper understanding and more profound empathy, resulting in more harmonious decisions and certainly more peaceful and happier lives.

There is also the burning question of destiny and religion.

Is our life path predetermined, or is it only a series of random coincidences?

I believe in a higher power that gives us tools to become architects of our own lives.

I am not sure that the script was written, and the tools are only there to build what is predetermined. I believe that we build our existences according to our own scripts, and we get the tools according to our own capacities.

Still, there is uncertainty. Did we choose all this exactly the way it is, and there is a larger plan, or are all our struggles, pain, suffering, wins and losses only a part of some random game?

Ultimately, is the pursuit of wisdom and knowledge over time the only pathway to true self-discovery? Is it only through hardships and the insights gained from our relationships, our struggles, love, loss, and pain, the only way to understanding ourselves more deeply?

Do the wrinkles on our faces genuinely reflect lessons learned, or are they simply a sign of our physical vulnerability and fragility?

The journey of self-discovery is not linear; it requires so much effort and pain, and it is filled with days of clarity, years of confusion, moments of happiness, and times of huge loss marked by super painful growth, learning, and connection to oneself and others that, again, cannot and does not happen easy.

I have never witnessed it happening early in life. Youth should be savored without the weight of wisdom. What follows later seems unwilling to cause pain to a young soul just discovering its way. There is immense beauty in this process, just as there is in discovering oneself and transforming into a wise owl.

In the end, our true wellbeing, simply put, lies in feeling comfortable in our own skin, and this comfortable place is what we keep searching for, until we find it, and when we do find it, we know this is where we want to stay for the rest of our lives.

However, this is the most challenging aspect, as it requires time to truly understand oneself, followed by even more years to learn how to live in alignment with the insights we have acquired.

Which holds more importance, wisdom or youth, and are there aspects of life that are either overrated or undervalued? Can these qualities be used interchangeably? Why do we often see ourselves as one person internally, but when we look in the mirror, we are surprised by someone aging only externally while remaining youthful inside? Have you ever experienced a sense of unfamiliarity with the person staring back at you from the mirror because you don't feel as old as you look in that mirror?

Why is there a discrepancy between what we see in the mirror and how old we are?

This is such a strange concept and eternally inexplicable.

Time isn't linear, and the nature of realities, in whatever form they exist, could be entirely different from what we think we know.

So, in the end, what does it mean being relevant in today's society?

What makes one generation matter more? Youth or wisdom?

We enhance the youth, we do not threaten it, and the youth uplifts us when we forget that we are more than just our physical bodies. After all, we were once that same youth and, in truth, still are- within ourselves. Our minds remain ageless, only our bodies age, and we do not wish to be defined or judged by our physical appearance.

We are all defined by our souls.

We accumulate knowledge and not all knowledge is individual.

A wealth of wisdom can be shared, preventing each generation from repeating serious mistakes. We can and should learn from each other continuously, but this is yet to be learned and achieved.